The Birth Of Lexie.
May 06
Steven Gerrard and his fiancee Alex Curran have a lot to celebrate. On Tuesday May 9 they welcomes their second daughter, Lexie, into the world and just days later Steven captained the Liverpool team to victory in the FA Cup Final. They've hardly had time to catch their breath but just 24 hours after the win, the glamorous couple and their two-year-old daughter Lilly-Ella welcomes OK! into their home in Formby, for this exclusive photo-shoot, to show off their newborn baby.
And when OK! arrives it's clear that motherhood second time around is agreeing with Alex who has snapped back into shape less than a week after giving birth. Steven clearly has his mind on the forthcoming World Cup, but it's obvious he's besotted by his two little girls and can't resist showing them off.
So once the final frame of this little family was shot and the tea was brewed, OK! sat down with Alex and Steven to talk about Lexie's dramatic arrival, their wedding plans and why Steven nearly lost his ear!
Triumph in the FA Cup Final and the birth of your second daughter - what a week!
Steven: Yes! Both Lilly and Lexie's births have been the best two days of my life but winning the cup has been very special too.
Is it true you had Lexie induced because of your football schedule?
Well, Alex's due date was on Cup Final day so obviously when it was getting nearer I started to panic. I didn't want to miss the Cup Final but I didn't want to miss the birth either. Experiencing Lilly's birth was so special and I wasn't going to miss Lexie's for anything.
Alex: There was a chance I was going to go over my due date and if that happened Steven might only have had a couple of days with Lexie before he had to go off to Germany, so it made sense.
How did you come to the decision to induce the baby a few days early?
Steven: Alex was seeing an obstetrician and he told me not to worry about the delivery clashing with the match because he'd be able to induce her. Alex agreed to do it and I'll never forget that. So we managed to get the baby induced on the Tuesday before the Cup Final.
What was it like being induced?
Well I went in on the Monday night and they gave me a tablet at about 10pm and said I should get some rest.
Steven: We were prepared for a sleepness night but after she was given the pessary, the midwife who was looking after Alex said she needed to get some sleep because the labour would start early in the morning.
What did you do in the meantime, Steven?
I wanted to stay at the hospital with Alex but there weren't any beds so I stayed in a hotel around the corner. But I tell you, I had my phone on the loudest ringing volume and Alex also had a number for the hotel and a direct line to the room. I can't say that I really slept, though - I slept with one eye open!
What happened when you woke up, Alex?
What was good was that I managed to sleep through the night but I woke up at about 5am with pains. I was straight on the phone to Steven.
Steven: I got the call and was by her side within 20 minutes.
Was it quite a long labour?
Steven: When I got there I was expecting her to be ready to go but we still had quite a few hours to pass. Her waters had broken while I was on the way to the hospital, so it was just basically getting there and being at Alex's side.
Were you scared, Alex?
I was a lot more scared this time. I was petrified in fact. It's because I knew I was going in, whereas when it just comes on you that's it and you have to get on with it. Also when you're induced it's supposed to be a lot more painful. Because I knew that, I was quite frightened.
Steven, did you feel bad knowing it was going to be that little bit more painful?
Once the pain started getting bad I did feel a bit guilty. At the beginning I knew she was okay with the pain because she's a brave girl and I knew she could handle it. But once the contractions started getting intense, I wanted to swap places and take the pain for her. I felt so guilty.
Was it worse this time, Alex?
It was really painful, yes. With Lilly I was in labour for eight hours but because I was dilating dead quick, the pain was just coming and coming. At one point I asked for some drugs because I really didn't think I could cope. But what I didn't know was how quickly it was all happening and that I was so far along. I was due to have an internal but everything was moving a lot quicker than they expected.
Did you panic at any point?
I was wriggling all over the bed. I was just thinking, I can't do it! I really thought I would have to have a Caesarean because the pain was so bad and it hurt so much. I just didn't think I was going to be able to do it.
Were you holding her hand, Steven?
She was squeezing my hand and at one point she said she was going to bite my ear off and I said: "Go on then!" I had images of me playing in the Cup Final with part of my ear missing!
Why did you want to bite his ear off, Alex?
He kept saying: "Squeeze my hand, squeeze my hand," and he put his head on my chest and I screamed: "I'll bite your your ear off," and he was just like: "Okay!" He kept saying he wished he could go through the pain instead of me and I was saying: "Yes, I wish you could as well!"
That was sweet of him...
Yes, but then he was saying: "Why are you whingeing! It's nothing - just push!" I was like: "Are you messing?" That's why it's women who have babies because men couldn't handle it!
Steven, did you feel helpless at all during the birth while Alex was going through such a lot of pain?
I actually spoke to Alex about this before she went in. Even though we'd been through it all before I asked her if there was anything she wanted me to do differently or anything I didn't do last time that she wanted me to do this time around. She just said that as long as I was there she'd be fine.
Did you have any drugs, Alex?
I was relieved because I didn't have to have an epidural. I really didn't want to have one so I just had gas and air and diamorphine in my leg.
When did it actually get to the point where you were actually pushing?
I got up to go to the toilet and I felt the head move down. There was a lot of pressure and I couldn't walk. The nurses had to come and lift me off the toilet. Then they put me back on the bed and I had her there and then. Two pushes and she was out.
That must've been a bit of a surprise...
Oh completely. But I think it was because I had stood up and walked around so the gravity had pushed her down. I was going: "I can't do it, I can't do it," but then she was there.
Did you hold the baby straight away?
They tried to put her on my chest but I asked if they could wipe her off first. They cleaned her up and then I held her, but when you've just given birth you're in a daze.
Steven, what was it like when the baby arrived and you found out you had another girl?
I was still worried for Alex because she'd been in so much pain. Once the baby was out and crying I still didn't know it was a girl because I was making sure Alex was all right. It was only when one of the widvives said it was a little girl that I looked at her. I was really happy again that it was a girl. I actually wanted a girl so Lilly had a little sister.
What did you think when you saw Lexie for the first time, Alex?
I just thought she looked exactly like Lilly did when she was born. It was like having Lilly all over again.
Steven, did you shed any manly tears?
I wasn't so emotional that I was going to cry, but on the inside I was really emotional. And I was so overwhelmed because of what Alex had been through.
You're a very glamorous girl, Alex, so we have to ask, did you wear make-up during the birth?
Oh yeah, I put make-up on before and some more afterwards!
Did you cut the cord, Steven?
I did with Lilly but the pain for Alex was more intense this time so I was taking care of her. I was really concerned for her.
It's become a tradition for a new mum to get a present from the father - did you get Alex anything special?
That's just a family tradition in this house every day - not just when there's a new baby [laughs]! I bought her a present after she had Lilly and I knew she had her eye on a watch that she was going to buy so I used some delaying tactics and bought it for her as a present for having Lexie.
You were up and about really quickly weren't you, Alex?
I know, I couldn't believe it myself. Last time I had stitches so it was totally different - the stitches made me feel terrible for weeks.
Steven, it must've been great for you to have all your girls home so quickly...
It was a bit unexpected. The doctor came to check on Lexie and Alex and he said she could stay overnight or go home, and Alex wanted me to take her home. It was amazing how smoothly it all went and how amazing Alex was looking. I think I looked like that one who'd been through labour!
Alex, how did you feel when you got home?
I was tired when I got back because I'd had the gas and air. I felt a bit woozy and dead fuzzy. But I went to bed for a couple of hours and I was fine.
You're looking very svelte, less than a week after the birth. Have you just snapped back into shape?
My tummy went down straight afterwards. Well, it's flat, but it's a way off being toned or anything. It's a bit wobbly but it'll take a while for the muscles to tighten up. I knew I'd go straight back because I did last time, but there was that worry in case I didn't. I didn't realise I'd go back to my normal shape so quickly, though.
How many dress sizes did you go up during the pregnancy?
I reckon I was probably a size 12 but I was wearing stretchy size 10 jeans towards the end. I've never weighed myself so I'm not sure how mush weight I gained nut I'd probably say about a stone and a half. To be honest, I don't like weighing myself - I just prefer to go by my clothes. I judge whether or not I have put on weight by how my clothes look and feel.
You said you were looking forward to getting back into your everyday jeans once the baby was born. Seeing as you managed that so quickly, is there anything else you've enjoyed wearing again?
I love being in my jeans again so I'm just wearing those every day with little tank tops - I've been made up because I was so sick to death of wearing baggy clothes.
Now Lexie is born are you going to be concentrating on the wedding?
I'm really excited about it now. Before I couldn't really organise anything and I really didn't know what I wanted. I wasn't really in the mood to think about it. But now Lexie's here I'll be able to start organising things properly and put some real effort into it.
How did you come up with the name Lexie?
Alex: I had thought about Alexa when Lilly was born and then a few months before the birth someone mentioned Lexie and that was it, I juts really liked it.
Steven: I'd picked a boy's name and Alex picked a girl's name. I know Alex loved Lexie and it's a bit like her name.
You went home very quickly with Lexie. Was Lilly excited to meet her little sister?
Steven: I was a bit nervous because a few people have said that the older child can get jealous and feel left out, but Lilly took it really well. She just wanted to hold her and be part of it. She was really jumping around trying to get involved. Even on our way home from the hospital my mum put Lilly on the phone and she was shouting Lexie's name.
Steven, you must've been pleased to have a few days to rest before your big match in Cardiff...
It was a relief really - from a totally selfish point of view - that Lexie was born and I still had a few days to get some sleep and get ready for the game. I lost out on a night's sleep, so it was good to have a few nights to catch up.
Your training must be very strict at the moment, considering the Cup Final and obviously the World Cup - surely sleepless nights and getting up to change nappies interupt that somewhat...
Rest and diet is really important but my family is more important. My manager gave me a week at home, which is really nice. I'm still getting up and getting involved in the night shifts.
Are you a hands-on dad?
I like helping out. I change nappies and do all the dirty work. It's good because I've got plenty of time to get loads of rest and still be with the baby.
It's only days after Lexie was born, so this may seem a little premature, but would you like more children?
Steven: I'd definitely like to have more children. Alex knows I'd like more kids but perhaps not in the short term. Once we get Lilly into school full-time and Lexie into nursery then we'll think about it.
Alex: I think it's something we'd have a think about in a few years. I'd think about having children when I'm slightly older, maybe when I'm 30.
What was the first thing you did to feel glamorous after Lexie was born, Alex?
I went to have my hair blow-dried. It was nice to do something normal and spoil myself. You don't feel particularly glamorous after giving birth so that was brilliant for making me feel like my old self again.
Will you go on a massive spending spree now you're not going to be shopping for maternity clothes any more?
I actualy bought quite a lot of stuff before I had the baby because I thought it might've gone by the time I had her! I've got most things I wanted now. But I'll be going shopping again very soon.
Alex, are you looking forward to spending time with the rest of the footballers' wives and girlfriends in Germany?
I'm really looking forward to seeing all the girls. I'm not sure how much I'll get to see them as I'll have Lilly and Lexie with me but I'm sure we'll get the chance to catch up for a good gossip.
Do you get on with Victoria Beckham?
Yes I do, we get on really well, she's lovely. We don't get the chance to see each other often but when we do she's really good company.
Will you be asking Victoria for any advice on multiple motherhood?
I'm sure when we get the chance to catch up I will, because she's a great mum.
You both were invited to the Beckhams' World Cup party. Tell us about that...
Alex: Victoria and David are great hosts. They came around and asked if we were having a good evening and we said yes because it was a really brilliant night. It was the first big event I've been to since Lexie was born and I had a wonderful time.
Steven, after the World Cup are you going to take some time out to be with the family?
I've arranged to get three and a half weeks off after the final because I want to spend some time with the girls. I'll be desperate to get home and have a family holiday.
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